So you’re trying to rekindle romantic feelings with a Sagittarius man? Maybe he’s mad at you, bored of you, whatever.
No worries, cause we’re going to cover some strategies that you can use to get him to chase you again. So if this is a relationship that’s meant to be, you’ll get the best opportunity to make it happen the way it should.
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Will a Sagittarius man come back?
The Sag man is entirely capable of moving on and never looking back after a breakup. He’s a freewheeling, independent person, so it doesn’t take long for him to get over a fling or romance.
Don’t fret though, because there are ways to win back your Sagittarius guy. You’ll have to put in the effort, of course. Life is an adventure to him, so you’ll need to make sure he sees that you are an adventure worth exploring again.
You shouldn’t just sit back and wait for him to come back to you (unless you employ some specific tactics). So instead of waiting around for him to call, you’ll want to fix some of the issues that caused him to drift from you before, and continue to build on them.
Ignoring a Sagittarius man to get him back – is it a good strategy?
A lot of people wonder if it’s a good idea to ignore a Sagittarius man to get him back.
Ignoring him, or just cutting him out for a while, can be a really good strategy to re-attract a Sagittarius man. He is a freedom-loving guy who needs to feel uncramped in romance and relationships.
So if you think that part of the reason he lost interest in you was because of your high availability, or crowding behavior, then intentionally ignoring/keeping a distance from him should be a beneficial tactic to draw him back to you.
The key benefit to this is showing that you’re unfazed by his absence. He’s a man who hates neediness and clingy tendencies. So if he sees that you’re not phased by his absence, he will be able to trust that becoming closer to you again shouldn’t be a threat to his autonomy.
While you want to make yourself scarce, you don’t want to be unfriendly to him. Don’t make it seem like you’re mad or reacting to him. Because reactivity makes him think you’re insecure and needy. You don’t want him to think that you’re keeping him out of the loop due to animosity, or to trigger him (even if you are), rather you want him to see that you’re busy and have lots going on.
When you do happen to run into him, don’t ignore him to his face. Just act warm and nonchalant. If he asks you what you’ve been up to, don’t hold back. But don’t invite him to do anything, don’t try to make him react. This will pique his interest, especially if you’ve got cool stories to tell since you’ve last seen him (he loves interesting things).
While this ignoring strategy will work well in most cases, there are instances where it won’t work well. Mainly, if you were never really that involved with the Sag man. If there wasn’t already strong chemistry built at some point, then he probably won’t notice your absence at all. In these cases you want to employ a more active strategy to attract his attention.
How to get a Sagittarius man to chase you again
Once you’re out of his orbit, or moved into the friend-zone, it can be challenging to catch him again.
Don’t push relationship vibes on him. If the Sag man has backed away from being romantic with you it’s probably because he felt like you wanted the relationship more than he did (he’s notoriously squirmy around relationships and pressure freaks him out). So if you hang out with him don’t discuss or focus on any deep romantic yearnings. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t create sexual tension between you two, you definitely should. But you should keep things light, festive and fun.
Get active and outdoors. Sagittarius men love the great outdoors and being physically active. If you want to be with this man, it’s a great idea for you to get out and active more often so you can keep up with him. If he’s still following your social media accounts, don’t hesitate to post any active or outdoorsy photos, as they’re sure to appeal to him. You can even frequent locations that you know he likes to be at. This provides a great way to “happen” to run into him again because chance run-ins are casual and put no pressure on him
Excite him with novelty. When a Sagittarius stops chasing it’s often because he’s started to get bored. He’s endlessly drawn to novelty and quickly gets tired of routine. Since he’s already chased you once, he knows many of your habits and interests. To attract him again you should consciously switch things up. Develop new interests, show a contrary side of your personality, go on spontaneous trips. If he’s keeping tabs on you none of this will go unnoticed, he has a radar for change and excitement, and he’ll want to figure out what’s up with you.
By applying some of these strategies there’s a good chance you’ll get back on his radar and he’ll start pursuing you again.
The biggest takeaway is that you should keep things light with him. Don’t grovel or get dramatic. Don’t try to make him feel guilty or uncomfortable for drifting away from you. All of this will push him even farther away, and he’ll feel even more justified in distancing from you.
It’s far better to drop any relationship pretext at all. Don’t bring up the past, just focus on being playful and having fun, today.
Are you having a tough time with a Sagittarius man acting distant? Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below.