So you want to rekindle the romantic feelings between you and a Sagittarius man?
Maybe he’s mad at you, perhaps he’s bored of you – or there’s some other kind of discord brewing between you two.
Or perhaps you’re wanting to get him to chase you for the first time.
No worries, cause we’re going to cover some powerful strategies to get your Sagittarius man chasing you.
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Will a Sagittarius man come back?
The Sag man is entirely capable of moving on and never looking back after a breakup. He’s a freewheeling, independent person, so it doesn’t take long for him to get over a fling or romance.
Don’t fret, though, because there are ways to win back your Sagittarius guy. You’ll have to put in the effort, though, of course.
Life is an adventure to him, so you want him to see you as an adventure worth exploring again. You shouldn’t just sit back and wait for him to come back to you (unless you’ve applied some specific tactics first).
So, instead of waiting around for him to call, be proactive and fix some of the issues that caused him to drift away from you in the first place. I have a ton of advice on how to be attractive to him in my course on thoroughly attracting a Sagittarian man.
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How to get a Sagittarius man to chase you again
Once you’re out of his orbit or moved into the friend zone, it can be challenging to catch him again.
But do the following things, and you’ll give yourself the upper hand.
Don’t push relationship vibes on him
If the Sag man has backed away from being romantic with you, it’s probably because he felt like you wanted the relationship more than he did.
He’s notoriously squirmy around relationships, and pressure freaks him out. So if you hang out with him, don’t discuss any deep romantic yearnings that you have.
This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t create sexual tension between the two of you (you definitely should). But do it while keeping things lighthearted and fun.
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Get active and outdoors
Sagittarius men love the great outdoors and being physically active. If you want to be with this man, get in the habit of being active so you can keep up with him.
If he’s still following your social media accounts, don’t hesitate to post any active or outdoorsy photos, as they’re sure to appeal to him.
You can even frequent locations that you know he likes to be at. This provides a great way to “happen” to run into him again. Chance run-ins are significant because they are casual and put no pressure on him.
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Excite him with novelty
When a Sagittarius stops chasing, it’s often because he started to get bored with you. He’s a man that’s endlessly drawn to novelty and quickly gets tired of consistent routines.
Since he’s already chased you once, he likely knows many of your habits and interests. So to attract him again, you should consciously switch things up. Develop new interests, show a contrary side of your personality, go on spontaneous trips.
If he’s keeping tabs on you, none of this will go unnoticed. He has a radar for change and excitement, and he’ll want to figure out what’s up with you.
These three tips are just a glimpse of what I cover on attracting him in my course.
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Ignoring a Sagittarius man to get him back – is it a good strategy?
Many potential partners wonder if it’s a good idea to ignore a Sagittarius man to get him back.
It is true that ignoring him or just cutting him out for a while can be an excellent strategy to re-attract the Sagittarius man.
He is a freedom-loving guy who needs to feel independent and expansive in romantic relationships. So if you think the reason he lost interest in you was because of your high availability or crowding behavior, then intentionally keeping a distance from him can be a way to draw him back to you.
The key here is showing that you’re unphased by his absence. He’s a man who hates neediness and clingy tendencies. So if he sees that his absence does not phase you, he will be able to trust that in being close to you again, he won’t fear that his autonomy is threatened.
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While you want to make yourself scarce, you don’t want to be unfriendly to him.
Don’t make it seem like you’re mad or reacting to him. Because reactivity makes him think you’re insecure and needy. You never want him to feel that you’re keeping him out of the loop due to animosity or to trigger him (even if you are). Instead, you want him to see that you’re busy with your life and have many exciting things going on.
When you happen to run into him, don’t ignore him to his face. Just be friendly and nonchalant. Don’t hold back if he asks you what you’ve been up to. But also, don’t invite him to do anything or otherwise try to force connection or make him react. This nonchalant interaction should pique his interest, especially if you’ve got cool stories to tell since you’ve last seen him (he loves exciting things).
While this ignoring strategy will work well in most cases, there are instances where it won’t work well, mainly if you were never really that involved with the Sag man.
If there wasn’t already strong chemistry built at some point, then he probably won’t notice your absence at all. You’ll want to employ a more active strategy to attract his attention in these cases. You can get tons of actionable advice for this in my course.
Related: 5 Surefire Ways to Make a Sagittarius Man Miss You
If you apply some of the strategies in this post, there’s a good chance you’ll get back on his radar. And hopefully, he’ll start to pursue you again.
The biggest takeaway is that you should keep things light when trying to get him to chase you again. This means being non-needy and relaxed with the vacuum of space that’s been created.
Never grovel or get dramatic. Don’t try to make him feel guilty or uncomfortable for drifting away from you. All of this will push him further away and make him feel more justified in distancing himself from you.
It’s best to drop any relationship pretext at all. Don’t bring up the past; just focus on being playful and having fun now.
Are you having a tough time with a Sagittarius man acting distant? Or do you have advice of your own to share? Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below!
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34 thoughts on “How to Get a Sagittarius Man to Chase You Again”
i’m a cancer and it happens for me to meet a Sagittarius man who happen to be slow in everything. We just met and now its been a month or so and we have not been on date before, we just text or call each other which it does not happen more frequently as i would like it to be. We have promised to meet and go out so that we learn a lot about each other but he cancelled and explained about how busy he is and that even at that moment he was going to attend a meeting with the client. I like the guy a lot but i fail to understand the busyness that he has. Hope everything will be fine
Hi Sharon. A Sagittarian may put business before relationships. They value the freedom that business/financial that achievements bring them. To coax him out on a date, you pick something fun to do that could pique his interest enough to shake him from his other obligations. Make it a mystery, even. These men love a mystery. Good luck!
I am libra and my crush is Sagittarius. He will leave university for two years in September for military service.He recognize that I like him too. We are good friend. He didn’t go to be boy friend nor stranger. He just stay in the middle with me.Do u think it will be annoy for him if I confess with the book that I wrote everything about him in past year. Sagittarius hate jealousy right because my the whole book is about my jealousy. I am afraid I will be far away from him if I do so . And I also want to follow him to airport when he go back to his country for military service but I am sure he will not allow me to go with him as he think it’s useless. I think I am gonna cry so bad when he leave me for 2 years Is that better to let him know how much I serious about him or not?
Hmm. If your whole book is about jealousy, that could indeed turn him off from you. But, it might not be a bad idea to let him know how you feel. Better yet, show him how, by having a good time together.
Hey I’m Virgo and my sag boyfriend just disappears it’s been 5 days still no call or text he did it before 11 days and I reached out and he said he was busy!
He clearly told me he wasn’t in love with me
I just don’t know why to do anymore I do love him I think I’m just emotionally attached more than in love.
Hey Kamellia. It sounds like his aloofness may stem from fading attraction. Did he in fact tell you that he wasn’t in love with you? Either way, I would carry on with your life, and continue making good things happen for yourself. He may feel that he’s moved on, but when you focus on building yourself up you have the best chance to re-attract him, or attract someone better. Good luck!
Hello, I’m leo. i recently hooked up with this sag guy. we got along really well, i started developing feelings for him, dou i didn’t let him know but i wanted a relationship. but all he keeps saying is how attracted he is to me, how he likes me but never says anything about commitment. he started being abit distant from me after sometime, so one day i asked him if he would mind sharing a platonic relationship with me if i started dating. then he didn’t give any definite reply, instead he made joke out of it. i got pissed of wuth the distance and texted him that since he wants to keep a distance i will help him prolong it. so he called me some hour after i texted him but i didn’t pick so i returened the call the next day but he didn’t pick and since then he hasn’t responded to either my calls or texts
I’m a Taurus and met a Sagittarius guy about 8 months ago. He’s fun to talk to but also very aloof and not very affectionate so I think not a good match for me, doesn’t make me feel particularly good or wanted. Physically there is an attraction there but seems about all.
Recently he’s gone quiet on me so I think it’s over now. Not sure what happened, maybe he got bored or met someone else.
Have tried communicating with him but the response was I’m busy so I’ll take the hint and move on to a more compatible horoscope match!
There’s absolutely a better match out there for you, Helen. His loss!
I’m a gemini woman. Me and this sag were talking for about 3 weeks now. He already told me that he likes me and wants to commet with me. He’s very straightforward and honest but maybe a bit controlling. Some conflict occurred two days ago and felt that he was hurt I apologized instantly, after that we talked normally he said that he likes me and gonna stay with me no matter what. Yesterday I sent him a message and he replied back and everything was normal, then I noticed that he removed his Facebook account and blocked me on another site. I was surprised why would he do that if he likes me. This is really confusing. Should I just move on :/
Hi, Dia. He might have emotionally shut down a bit after your conflict. He probably has some issues around emotional expression, especially since he’s shown you that he can be controlling at times. I would take a deep breath and wait things out. Don’t lose sleep over it. You can essentially move on for now, while being open to him showing back up in your life. But since he ghosted you and blocked you, I wouldn’t put much energy into him anymore.
Thanks for the reply. So he didn’t really like me, or love for him can be forgotten so easily? I’m still in shock lol since yesterday :’)
Yes, I am also a Gemini woman. I am also in a long term relationship with a Sag man.
We have disagreements but ultimately a sag who is serious would never do that.. they hate betrayal, we do to. Geminis hate being treated like garbage.. we will leave.. we questions ourselves first but we ultimately actually both sag and gems know when they are done.
Please know you are worthy of love and respect..
Hi. I felt like your comments were spot on about my situation. I am a Sagittarius and have been involved with a Sagittarius man since July. I don’t like fast , clingy , or controlling relationships with men. He definitely is always doing his own thing. Busy man. I admire so many qualities, characteristics he shows, but he keeps my mind wandering . I can’t decide if he has lost interest or just horrible at communicating. I don’t want to scare him off by asking what his intentions are between us. I want to break it off because I want more attention than he has to offer. I love his company and other things when we are together. I don’t know how to let him know I am losing interest in his behavior.
I’m a gemini whose dating a sagg man and we are in a serious relationship. Its been 9 months. However he has become very inconsistent and distant. I think its because im always available and keep forgiving him for letting me down but this weekend I went away and only told him on the day however since then he has become even more distant. Its been 2 days and we haven’t spoken. Yes the odd text but that’s it. Its like he doesnt care. He didn’t ask if I got there or got home OK. I’m really confused as he said he loved me but its been some time since he’s said it. Its always me now and then he will respond with a love u too. Hes always busy I get it his business is his life but he asked me out and now its like I’m just there as and when he wants to talk. We hardly meet up either. Me going away making myself u unavailable should have made him maybe see something is different but instead hes pulled back even more. Any advice please. I’m seriously considering if this relationship is worth the stress recently.
Hi Aisha. I think he might have lost some attraction. And it very well could have been related to your always being available and too quick to forgive (related to boundaries, self-esteem). I would give him space and live your life. If he’s a good match, he’ll show interest again after you’ve stepped back. If not, you know it wasn’t meant to be. Good luck!
What’re your thoughts and suggestions for a Sagittarius man and an Aquarius woman being in a long-distance relationship?
Those are two signs that can likely handle a LDR pretty well. But as with all long-distance dynamics, you’ll have to keep the sparks alive. To give you more targeted advice, purchase one of my single question readings, and I’ll look more closely at you and your Sagittarian man’s relationship.
I’m a Cancer and am currently crushing on a Sagittarius. We share a friend group and they are really close to a Capricorn. When I started noticing this it would put me in a bad mood and I barely felt like hanging out with them But not as much now. I have already been a bit distant with them on my own part because I need space and time for myself. How do I attract them again? I don’t know how to keep things light and exciting for them. How do I know if this Capricorn is more than a friend to them? What are signs that indicate they like me or them? I’m also a somewhat emotional person and I wanna know how I can share that with them without making them feel down. I just wanna get more comfortable with them because I constantly feel like I’m walking on eggshells. I wanna be able to share if I’m having a bad day without things getting awkward. I’m also sensitive, how should I react if they hurt my feelings? How do I brush off things that I would normally find mean or rude. I wanna learn more about them, they almost never share any details about themselves, how do I ask? How do I fit in with their atmosphere so I don’t seem boring?
Hi, Kenji. Sorry that it’s been tough. I know a lot of Cancerian people, so I understand you on all your questions. There’s a lot to unpack there, though. And knowing full charts would be best if I was going to answer them all. Consider taking up a reading with me!
Hi , I am a female Virgo. I reconnected with a Sag male after so many years. We dated in our 20s and reconnected in our Mid 30s. Fifteen years later via social media! We have a deep intense and frenetic connection. A chemistry that is wild and unexplainable. We’ve been texting and calling non stop for the last couple weeks. We are Communicating long distance and he made plans with me to talk and meet up in person. But then he disappeared for 5 days. He messaged me and checked in and said he will be busy, that he’ll message me. Then poof! And I don’t know what he’s feeling and thinking? He responds to my texts right away. And usually always comes back. Should I call him? Or leave him alone? He has told me he’s interested but is afraid of commitment. Ugh. I don’t know what to do. I am in love with this guy. I can’t stop thinking about him, he feels like home to me. I can’t get him off my mind. When he goes aloof it drives me nuts. I don’t want to push him away but I don’t want him to think I’m not interested either. Please help!
Hi, xtina. Sorry, this sounds like a tough situation! I’m sure this unpredictable, flaky behavior is due to that fear of commitment that he mentioned. He probably struggles to show up in a consistent and mature way with love interests. You’d be right in being frustrated by, and looking for answers for, his disappearance after making plans. But I do think you should respect his distance and wait until he messages you, as he said he would. It’s the best way to avoid pushing him away. Take this time to decide for yourself if his behavior is something you’d be willing to deal in a long-term partner. If you end up in a relationship, you’ll likely have to coax him into steady intimacy and be patient while he works to quell some of his flighty tendencies. Really consider if the feelings he’s bringing up in you now are worth it. They very well may be, but it’s something you should decide yourself.
So I recently was with a Sagittarius man just broke it off today. We dated for 3 months. In the beginning we had a lot of chemistry and physical attraction but he would be so rude on the phone and expected me to just drop everything for him whenever he wanted. He did not know how to communicate everything was a fight to him and he’d hang up in my face and ignore me when id try to explain myself. He would then block me for 4 days over something that I apparently said which he would make up in his head just to fight and I’d let him go n not really care as a Capricorn I don’t have time for childish games. He’d later on come back unblock me n expect me to just be there for him but I’d get angry n tell him to leave me alone but he wouldn’t until I gave in. this continued for the whole 3 months. I eventually found out he was lying about his age he said he was 40 then openly told me he was 47 and I stil don’t know the truth coz he then said his older then that too n I also found out his birthday was also fake so he wasn’t a Capricorn too like ge originally said that was a lie I then found out he was on multiple dating sites n meanwhile made me delete all my social media only to find that he was chasing women on his and following a whole bunch of porn stars. Which I got very angry about and he tried to deny it to my face even with the evidence I had. The last straw was when we actually made up and I poured my heart to him n he said he loved me only to catch him on a dating site again an hour later instead of talking to me saying he was busy fixing his friends car (He actually pays these sites but never really paid or got me anything only one offs when he was feeling generous and he was so cheap saying a women shouldn’t ask a man for anything which I didn’t because I never needed to) when I confronted him he turned it on me again as he always does saying that I’m the liar he later confessed that yes he msged one lady that night but I know there was more and the next day I was upset coz my mom was taken to hospital he didn’t even ask I later found out instead of asking about me that night he was chatting on his fb to other women n just fell asleep without bothering to check up on me I lost it and just was done from there this is a man who made me meet his family by force and told me he loved me and would do whatever I wanted to prove his not a cheat and that he was serious and had me in his house daily would throw his phone at me to be like look it’s clear when really it was all hidden on his iPad so I just couldn’t deal with him anymore n pulled away he then came down to my work n I at this time knew I was done with his negative rubbish so I confronted him again coz I wanted to do it in person n what ticked me off more was that he’d be checking out every women walking past like anything I said was just not important I blew up at him n he called me sick n left only to msg me saying he didn’t want us to be together and when I agreed he flipped again saying stuff like im always fighting and r u really done and I stuck to my guns and said yes ur free to use ur dating sites again have fun n left it at that he then got angry saying I’m so sick and I’m such an angry women and I was like well u wanted it peaceful I did it peacefully yet u stil have a problem then then says he loves me and he wouldn’t come and see me if he didn’t but I’m the problem and I just didn’t want to hear his rubbish so I told him yes that’s fine I will agree to that and he was like ok well I’m free to go sleep with other women don’t ask me what I’m doing and I said yes that’s fine. He later msgs saying he couldn’t bring himself to tell his mum we broke up and I sent him back a whole list of what he did to me n told him to tell her that so she could understand n didn’t hear from him after that he didn’t block me … yet but I’m pretty done with him and feeling lower then a dog no affection no apologises ever never made me feel special to the point where I felt cared for he would always say I don’t want to tell u anything nice I do behind ur back because ur a show off but he would tell me anyway. It was all games and I was sick of being treated with so much disrespect he even would say all women are under his feet which shocked me to hear but I would pass it as his just being dramatic and all the signs I didn’t pick up on like I can’t stand women I don’t know why I like u so much and ur the only women that I’ve actually liked in less then a month and the only one I would bring into my house n meet my family I feel sorry that my family had to meet someone like u and that his never loved women besides me in his life and at his age that was very weird to me but I think it was a load of rubbish because In the beginning he told me he was serious with one he wanted to marry when he was a lot younger but she wanted To sleep with other men so when I asked how would u marry someone u don’t love he said they all just want to have fun that’s all so I’m guessing his telling me what he did to them just covering it up by blaming them. I do love him alot he made me happy to just be around him and I invested a lot of time bought him a lot of gifts and planned out my future with him and he’d be so happy wanting to be apart of my family but the negativity and the lies and all the games he’d play just bought it to a whole dead end for me and I don’t see how or why he would even consider marrying me for like it was a game too I know he will be back again after his slept around and had his fun with the multiple women but this time I’m very prepared to set him in place as I’m now happy I finally see him for what he is …. A lowlife manipulative lying loser and my biggest waste of time
I’m a Gemini woman and I’ve dated a sag man off an on for a while now he was so perfect at the beginning of our relationship including the fact that we were friends before and he had a crush so we gave it a try but then he ended up cheating on me twice and I forgave him every time but then I played get back and everything went down hill and very toxic he said he lost feelings from the the get back and continued cheating I don’t understand how he can’t take what he has done to someone else. We made up but he has been so distant and said he doesn’t like showing emotions and it’s gotten worse since we’ve been long distance but says he wants to be with me and love me I love my sag but I’m very confused is the relationship ruined and I should just move on or try to work things out but how do I go about that with him what is best thanks
Hi, Kye. I’m sorry to hear how things have gone in your relationship. From the context you’ve given, I’d say it’s best to forget this Sag guy and move on. There are much better men out there who are more deserving of you.
I am a 38 year old Libra. He is a 22 year old young boy. It was an online singing app and he heard me sang and saw my profile picture and decided to message me. He was being very frank, open and very straightforward about being attracted to older ladies and my smile. Initially he didn’t want to tell his age because he was afraid that I would reject talking to him right away but I said well, he already took a chance to message me so might as well else what is the point of messaging me in the first place? We are chat via text, voice message and call since it is long distance. We don’t really text or call back and forth. He would disappear for hours and pops back in, mostly at night. Within a day or 2, he kept telling me he likes me… talking about life together, travel, asked if if i would consider marriage and migration and he also start touching on topics that it is leading towards a little.. sexual. Now I am a rather conservative person but I am also a curious person. I am flattered but not about to jump into anything, highly capable of being on my own and all. But i am also very curious in finding out what are his motives. What do you think? Is he serious or just playing?
Hello, I’m a Taurus and my ex is a sagittarius. So he wanted to take a break first because he was so tired of fighting. So we took a break but he would look for me and it only lasted a week when on a Friday he texted me to come over so i did i went to his house and he started telling me “I’m sorry, I’m sorry” over and over again and wanted us back! Then we got back together and then he texted me telling me that he lost hope and that day on Friday he was gonna actually break up with me but he felt bad. And he’s just tired of always fighting. And he says he does love me he just lost hope. He said “maybe God will lead us together in the future” but i think i left things bad i don’t know what to do i want us to be back together and be healthy again! Should i text him or wait for him to text me first?
I knew a sagittarius guy that very sweet and very caring to me. We know each other for almost 1 month and the sparks between us, the communication, and everything goes very fast escalate and turns out very well. Everything was so beautiful. He is very sweet and caring.
Then got one time i did ignore him straight on his face because when we hang out, he left me to go home alone while he leave the place with his friend.
I was not happy because i feel thats not what guy must do, especially after all the sparks that happen. At least he wait for me and we go out from the place together.
Happens that we met outside the mall again that night, and when he kept trying to follow me walk and say byebye to me i ignored him abit. But then he still accompany me texting until i rch home and still very caring. So i thought everything is normal and he still care.
Few days later i met him, everything changed . No more spark from him, no more love from him. And he start to telling me all his ex , start to checking out girls in front of me, and no more physical touch. He always keep his distance when walk and eat with me. No more flirt.
Yes we r still friend, he still planning to meet and hang out. Still contact everyday . But he obviously friend zone me.
Is there any chance for me to get his attention back? Or should i just let him go ??
Im a leo woman btw. And he is sag man.
Hi there. Sagittarians are very independence-focused, and they want that quality in a partner, too. While many men would more stringently accompany you, a Sag guy might see no problem with letting you head home alone, because he expects you to be capable to navigate things alone and not be reliant on him. I’m sure he was surprised a bit and put off by your strong reaction of ignoring him, so after a few days, he started to pull back and feel a bit colder. If you want to get the spark going again, you need to show him that you’re independent and not needy for his affection or company, which will attract his Sagittarian nature.
Hi, I’m a Taurus women who is talking with a Sagittarius man. We started talking about 4 months ago and he was very interested in me and I found out we have a lot more in common than past experiences with other men. For instance, I enjoy the fact that he’s honest and he tends to show physical attraction which I do enjoy at times. When I say “physical” I mean he does romantic gestures and isn’t afraid to show public affection. Unfortunately, our start of a relationship is now at a pause. See, he was trying to be nice and say he wasn’t interested in what I expected of him… which did cause some confusion. After having a neutral conversation to see what he meant, it finally came out that I was being clingy which I find a little funny because I don’t like clingy either. After understanding this I basically told him I understood and didn’t hate him for expressing this. See… I didn’t want to come off strong and though most of the romantic gesture were voluntarily him doing, I honestly believe it was because I would make contact with him so much. See I hate having to text everyday, and I was afraid of telling him this because of how he physically acted around me. So I went with the flow. I didn’t scold him for this. Instead I told him I was glad he was honest and to next time not think him being direct would cause some emotional injury. I like him and he expresses that he does too, but he believes he’s not the right guy because of him not able to bring something to the table. I left him alone, ensured there were no hard feelings, and I have a feeling that I shouldn’t make contact. In the end he made it clear he needed to work on school and be himself. I don’t feel worried, I think there was a physically attraction. I’m just concerned if I may have unintentional came off as “clingy”. Am I in the right to let him be? We did do a lot of common things together and shared a lot of interests. I even asked if he was interested in trying something like dancing in the near future which he seemed interested in. I guess what I’m saying is… I understand the want of freedom, but with a step like being seen as clingy, I feel there was a misunderstanding with intentions. How do I demonstrate this to him without showing a behavior that I don’t like myself? I was excited to meet someone with the same views. I don’t want to lose him, but know that I know how he see’s me, I don’t want him to keep believing I am! The good in it is that he still wants to talk but it’ll take time. How do can I gain his interest again without making him feeling suffocated?
hello, i am leo. i met with this sag guy, and we got along, he will always tell me how attracted he is to me and how he likes me. but i wanted to date him. so after sometime he started giving a distance, then one day i asked him if he will mind sharing a platonic relationship with me if i start dating someone. he didn’t give a direct answer, instead he avoided the question. he continued the distance, so i texted him one that if he wanted to keep a distance then i wll help him prolong it. so after some hours, he called back but i didn’t pick up, then i called back the next day he didn’t pick and since then he has stopped taking my calls or replying my chat, he just pretends like he doesn’t see them.
WARNING: Sagittarius men are at their core loners. They will test a relationship as long as it serves their interest. Because they’re so self-focused, when they do give you a wink, some quality time or allow something more, what it be is totally in their control. They will pull all the strings and pull the rug out from under you when they so decide. You can follow all of the sensible advice that will help a bond to be established, but in the end you will be the Sag man’s puppet. Protect yourself, your heart, and your time. Have fun, resist their elusive charm, and cut out before he does, or be prepared for it.
i am a virgo who has been dating a Sagittarius guy for over a year. Friday we got into a spat which rarely happens and I was quite rude to him. I told him there have been times where I have not got enough affection from him or that I’ve not spent a lot of time with him lately but he has been working away a lot. I was spitballing and actually didn’t mean what was coming out as I’m quite independent and on one day I chose to not see him. Then he told me that he’s been thinking since before Christmas that he doesn’t know if he can give me what I want in the long run. i asked if he wanted to break up and he said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to break up and that he felt guilty I asked if he loved me but he said he wasn’t sure if he loved me enough to give me what I want in the future. the next day we spoke and he said he has a lot of love for me but he feels he’s changed and doesn’t see the end goal of kids and marriage with me (we have never spoken about kids or marriage) I reached out the next day and asked if I could collect some stuff from the house and he told me he was staying with his brother for the night but would be around in the week and agreed before this that he would like to stay in touch, I was upbeat and said no problem. fast forward to yday and I just asked him if he would be interested in going for a drink in the week. he has always been terrible at texting but he replied the next morning to say yeah sure and that he can do Thurs. I agreed and told him to pick the time and place and I would meet him there, I have not messaged him since. Am I clinging on to a hope that might not be there? in his past relationships he’s cut contact and moved on quite quickly I don’t want this to happen with us our sexual chemistry is out of this world and were still very intimate we got on so well had so much in common and were always laughing together. I don’t know how to be on Thurs and what I need to do to make him rethink us breaking up