7 Key Things To Know About the Sagittarius Man in Bed

Loren E. Elara

Loren E. Elara

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This post covers some of the most frequently asked questions concerning the Sagittarius man’s sexual tendencies and what he likes most in bed.

Some FYI: this post will be exclusively about the Sagittarius man’s sex traits and his style of lovemaking. I won’t be going into detail about his romantic/relationship proclivities because I have other posts about those topics on this site. So check those out if you’re curious to learn more in-depth details about the Sagittarius male.

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1.) Are Sagittarius Men Good in Bed?

Curious how satisfying a romp in the sack with the Sag man can be?

The answer is: it depends. Sexual tastes are always subjective.

But he does have certain ways about him that may or may not line up with what you like.

For example, he is a fire sign who likes to act fast and bring physical intensity to the bedroom. So if you like adventurous, passionate, and athletic sex, then you should be plenty satisfied with the Sagittarian guy.

If you instead desire lots of foreplay, empathetic sharing, and emotional depth during sex, then the Sagittarius man might not be your type. He’s not particularly keen on diving deep into feelings and emotions (unless he has some water placements).

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2.) Are Sagittarius Men Freaky?

Yes – you can count on Sagittarius men enjoying some kinky things. Sagittarius is a novelty-seeking Fire Sign, after all, and he likes to try a bit of everything.

He tends to have a dominant personality – and that translates to his bedroom proclivities. Any power play is likely to turn him on. He loves a woman who is comfortable in her femininity and enjoys being sexually submissive with him. Any bondage, spanking or other S&M ideas you throw at him he’ll probably be eager to explore.

If you aren’t at all kinky – there’s a chance he could be put off by that. He’s a man who likes to explore and expand. He wants what he wants and might dislike his sexually adventurous, explorative side to be turned down. But, if he has a moderate level of maturity, he will respect your boundaries.

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3.) What are his Favorite Sex Positions?

Everyone is different in this regard, but there are some positions that he’s likely to favor. He enjoys positions that are athletic and put him in a dominant position.

Some potential positions: Doggy-style, Shoulder stand, The V, Downward Dog, Cello, Prison Guard, Captain, Missionary Plank.

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4.) What are the Sagittarius Man’s Erogenous Zones

The Sag man’s main erogenous zones are his hips and thighs (inner and outer).

If you’re looking to turn him on at any time, pay close attention to these areas. He’ll be extremely responsive to your touch. You can lightly graze, or grab him. They’re great spots for massage, too.

Try to explore these areas during sex, see if you can find a position that stimulates these areas in him or allows him to stimulate you, as he likes touching those places on you, too.

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5.) The Sagittarius Man’s Biggest Turn-ons

A high sex drive. The Sag man is high energy and very physical. Sex is an athletic event for him, and he likes to enjoy it often. He loves a partner who can keep up with him.

A fun attitude. He’s turned on by fun, excitable energy. Sex for him is intense, but not broody. He prefers a partner who keeps sex light and heavy on laughs.

Confidence. He’s a dominant guy who wants a confident sexual partner. He wants someone who knows what they’re into and is game to explore new things.

Intelligence. Wit and mental agility are potent aphrodisiacs to the Sag guy. If you attract him and can match his mental prowess, it’s on, and you should have no problem talking him into bed.

Directness. The Sag man is blunt and direct and appreciates the same in others. He doesn’t like a guessing game in bed and prefers a partner who will say exactly what they want.

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6.) How to Satisfy a Sagittarius Man in bed

Try to surprise him. Anything that’s spontaneous and adventurous will excite him. Introduce a new toy or position, pull him aside at a party, or at a family gathering. Outdoor sex is great, and car sex as well. Give him road head out of the blue and he’s sure to become enamored with you.

Encourage his dominant side. If you’re comfortable being sexually submissive, let him know, and you’ll be in for a good time. You could also try going full-on dominant yourself some of the time, he appreciates strength and initiative in a woman.

Don’t push a ton of emotionality on him. He’s uncomfortable with too much emotional expression. This is especially important in the early stages of your sexual exploration together. He is a flighty guy who hates feeling romantically overexposed to someone due to his fear of commitments. Too much emotion can scare him off.

 Related: 5 Essential Things to Know About Dating a Sagittarius Man

7.) Sexual advice for the Sagittarius Man

These are tips for him to better enjoy sex.

Avoid being selfish. The Sagittarius man sometimes gets a bad rap for being a selfish lover. He’s a fire sign, so he has tons of enthusiasm, which is great, but he can tend to get lost in his own satisfaction. It’s sometimes good for him to tune into his partner’s needs a bit more.

Be more open to emotional expression. Sex for Sagittarius is mostly physical and athletic. It’s great to have rough, physical sex – but sometimes his partner could use a little more openness and sentimentality.


Have you had any sexual experiences with the Sag man? What were your experiences like, and do you have any tips for us? Let us know in the comment section below.

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8 thoughts on “7 Key Things To Know About the Sagittarius Man in Bed”

  1. My Sagittarius man lied to make me interested in him. He had/has a sex cams addiction and was having virtual sex with hundreds of different woman a night/every other night through to early hours of the morning. When getting to know him had lied and said that he hadn’t been doing stuff like that for months of in order to manipulate stronger feelings towards him.
    When confronted he lied with pathetic excuses about having an app that makes up its own internet history in order to cover up real browsing history. ‘How do you know it was me and not a friend’.. first an app then a friend.. he tried many different contradictory excuses then told the truth, after telling the truth lied about it again then told the truth and lied ect.

    If he was open to begin with I would have been accepting but concerned about the scale of use and would have detached emotionally.

    I do not trust my partner because of his unnecessary compulsive need to lie excessively and I have seen him grows to believe his own lies through ‘forgetfulness’
    He was also using hook up websites to find sex after asking me to be his girlfriend.
    I don’t agree that the Sagittarius man is more interested in satisfying himself in bed I have seen the opposite in my Sagittarius partner.

    1. Hi, Nanu. I’m sorry to hear about your experiences with his manipulation. Shame and denial breed secrecy and disingenuous behavior, unfortunately. I would deeply consider if his actions make the relationship worthwhile for you. Though that’s good to hear that he’s interested in satisfying you in bed.

  2. I’m a Libra, and I’ve been having a secret affair with my Sag guy for over a year. We don’t get the chance to meet very often. Every time we meet in public we both feel a strong attraction to one another. We have great conversations where we laugh and finish eachother’s sentences. Great chemistry! We often end up hot texting/video after meeting in public. When we meet in private we just melt together. Passionate kissing, wonderful sex and lots of eye contact…. It’s crazy how well we match in that departement! (I was married to a Gemini for many years and although we loved eachother and the sex was good we never had THIS kind of sexual connection.) When my Sag and I have sex, I feel LOVED because of the way he looks into my eyes. Sometimes it’s a playful, teasing look, sometimes a soft smile and sometimes it’s like he’s amazed by me. He makes me feel like a princess, I feel safe and I feel worshipped.

    However; «It’s just sex». At least that’s what the deal is. He has obligations elsewhere (relationship and children) and doesn’t want me to think the two of us are in a relationship. Although I’m a Libra I’m not too keen on relationships myself at the moment. Also, I have no intention of breaking up his household.

    My problem (other than the obvious bad conscience for having sex with another woman’s man) is that he always goes silent on me after we’ve had sex. Not immediately – we usually hang out for a conversation and a cup of coffee. We laugh, he opens up a little… we don’t cuddle after sex (I don’t mind, but I do notice). We hug or kiss before parting, but more like friends than lovers… And then comes a time of no texting, almost no respons if I text him. The contrast between that warm, fun, pleasant and attentive guy I had sex with and this…cold bastard is HUGE! And SO confusing. My gut tells me he is afraid of falling for me because that could cause serious problems in his current relationship (yeah, it’s kinda stupid skipping the fact that there must already be serious problems in a relationship where he is being unfaithful!). His biggest fear is hurting his kids. I’ve asked him if he struggles with a bad conscience after having sex with me, but he doen’t want to talk about it. So he shuts me out. And that’s when I usually break up. Or he, if I suggest he should. No quarrelling, just coming to our senses.

    Sag and I have broken this thing off several times, but we keep falling back into eachother’s arms. Last time we «broke up» I was really brave and confessed I had feelings for him, and that I might want more than «just sex». I reconned that would scare him off for good, but I thought «so be it, probably for the best». We agreed that we had really enjoyed ourselves and eachother, but that it was more important to take care of oneself and thus be able to maintain a friendship. And his relationship. I even advised him to work out whatever is wrong in his current relationship, and (as a joke) not to go silent on future lovers. After that he sent me subtle signs that he reciprocate my feelings. I pretended I didn’t notice. I mean; it was so subtle I might have imagined it. But it was there.

    Our «break up» lasted a couple of months, and then he initiated contact again. We met a few times, and the sex was even better than before! The way he looked at me….! He was more cuddly than usual when we parted and he has not been so rigidly on silent mode as before. And here we are… I don’t know where this is going (if anywhere), and I don’t know if he loves me or is just playing me. My gut says both.

    1. I know this is none of my business, but I just read your post and feel invested now. 😉 Do you want to give an update as to how things are going for you?

  3. So I’ve been in a secret relationship with a saggitarious man. He has a girlfriend plus other women(unsure of how many) Oh and we work in the same institution. He makes me feel so loved, gives me all the attention that I want, often expresses how much he misses me and craves me and always comes to see me everyday for my daily kiss to start off my day at work. We don’t see each other outside of work and I don’t know why. He always seems to be too busy and I stopped asking to meet up. On our lunch breaks sometimes we have car sex or we go to his home nearby. Sex with him is amazing because of his sensuality. His dick isn’t that big but his sensuality, passion, kinkyness, intensity and wanting to ensure that I’m pleased all the time(making sure that I cum), makes up for it. He is very dominant and brings out my submissive side. I always let him lead.. sometimes he wants me to get on top and i show him my confident and sexy side although I’m not sure if im pleasing him.. I fell inlove with him and I wish I hadn’t because its clear that he won’t commit to me. He already has other commitments. I don’t quite see a future here and I know better than to hope. All I know is I always wanna move on but everytime I see him his charming and flirtatious ways that is so manipulating wins me over everytime. He pretends like nothing happened between us and I fall right into his traps. I love him let me know what you guys think.

  4. As a Sagittarius woman (5 times in my chart) I just wanted to comment – especially reading some of the other comments. I think it’s important to let other signs know that it is kindof a Sagittarius thing to make people feel special and like they’re the only person in the world when we’re with them. I don’t have as much trouble with this as a woman vs. probably Sagittarian men bc men don’t always tend to get as attached (although there have been a few). But from the Sagittarian perspective we generally just love and are interested in people. To your Sagittarian, you are special, but so are a lot of other people – you know what I mean? I just think it’s really important to know this because I think with Sagittarians it’s really easy to project into something and think it’s more than it is, but for the Sag – when they’re with you, they’re with you and when they’re not…. they’re often not… they’re interested in someone or something else. So just… beware of your own projections in a relationship with a Sagittarian where they haven’t been absolutely clear that you are ‘the one.’

  5. Hi my name is Sam. I have met sag man through dating agency. We have hit the ground running. Sex texting is out of this world. I am a Virgo woman. Everything so far i have read abt compatibility seems to be coming to fruition. He is aware that i have only had two relationships and have been on my on for 24 yrs. i am worried that i may not be enough for him. He does not seem deterred by this but spurred on. He is a confidence giver but will i be enough for him. I dont want to get hurt. We have texted and FaceTimed and are shortly to meet. He is so confident and relaxing to talk to. He gives me so much confidence to express myself. But will we work. I am not a clinging violet by any means. We are both self sufficient and independent but he will be the first man in ages that i will be with. Any advice?

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