So you might have a Sagittarius male admirer, huh?
But you’re not entirely sure if he has a crush or feelings for you.
I don’t blame you. It can be hard to tell if a Sag man likes you. He’s friendly to just about everyone and is flirty around most women. He can be super playful, fun, talkative, and try to make you smile, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he’s singling you out for romance.
So let’s help you figure him out: here are five key signs to look for when trying to gauge if he has a romantic interest in you.
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1.) He’s attentive and tuned into you
The Sagittarius man leads a busy, scattered life. He’s always up to something, and his attention is always occupied.
He’s possessive over his time and energy, so if he’s honing in on you, you’ve caught his fickle attention, good job. This definitely signals that you mean something to him.
If he’s strongly favoring you in social gatherings that’s especially revealing, because he’s often the life of the party, and his attentions rarely falls on any one person for too long.
2.) He compliments your intelligence
The Sagittarius man prizes mental acuity and wit. Intelligence turns him on. Even though he’s a physical guy, he needs a mental connection to make friendship and romance work.
There are a few ways you can tell if he appreciates your mind. One, he simply tells you. He’s blunt like that.
You can also pick up on his admiration if he continually engages with you in conversation.
He loves to talk, and can go on and on. But he will swiftly disengage from the conversation if he feels like the minds around him aren’t worth his time. So if his focus is remaining on you, that means he respects your mind. Which is an important component of his attraction process.
The biggest clue that he’s into you is if he asks for your opinion. He may be curious about your stance on any range of topics, from politics, religion, science, literature, to social issues and culture. He can be a bit of a know it all and likes to be the teacher in social situations. So if he’s asking you for your advice, or opinion, on something, that means he respects you, appreciates your worldview, and maybe starting to admire you.
3.) He wants you to come on his adventures
The Sagittarius guy is either cooking up an adventure or is already fully immersed in one. There’s not much in-between.
He loves being on the move, and the outdoors, sports and travel speak to him. Any given week he may be on biking, trekking, sailing, bouldering, competing in martial arts, rowing, or playing ultimate frisbee.
He’s perfectly content to do all of this on his own, with his dog, or with his already established friend group. So if he’s inviting you, it means he cares for you and wants to have fun with you. Hopefully, he invites you on his next weekend camping trip!
4.) He connects with you when you’re apart
The Sag man isn’t the best at keeping in contact with people when he’s not around them.
He’s not the type of guy to check in on his partner or friends just for the sake of it. He’s too busy doing whatever it is that he’s doing to be bothered.
If he does call or text, it’s typically to plan a physical meet up. So take note if he’s keeping in contact with you to plan your next outing together, or even messaging you just to get to know you better, or talking about something that happened to him or you since you’ve been apart.
5.) He makes time for you
It’s the ultimate sign that a Sagittarius man likes you if he starts opening up his schedule for you.
Typically he will make a plan, and ask his friends to come along. The plans and time are all on his terms. But in rare cases, he will plan around those important to him.
If he’s starting to adjust to your schedule and staying consistent (he can be a flake), then it’s a big sign that his interest in you is growing and you’re becoming more important to him.
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