It’s easy to miss the Sagittarian guy’s happy-go-lucky persona when he’s not around. He’s lively, enthusiastic and fun to be around.
But to make him miss you? That’s another story.
He’s one of the most independent and self-contained signs in the zodiac, so you need some skill to make him yearn for you when you’re not around.
But if there’s a will, there’s a way. And each man of the zodiac has specific triggers that you can exploit to better attract their attention.
Below you’ll find out exactly what you can do to make the Sagittarius man’s attention glued to you. Whether you’re together, or not.
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1. Be fun and lighthearted
If you want the Sagittarius man to miss you, it’s important that you mirror certain qualities of his when you’re together.
Some important qualities of his to mirror include: being outgoing, spontaneous, adventurous and open-minded. But the most important quality of his to mirror is creating a fun and lighthearted atmosphere.
Sagittarius is the fun-loving child of the zodiac. He wants to be a kid forever and wants every day to be a raucous, playful excursion.
So to make him miss you, indulge this side of him whenever you can. If you represent fun and good times he will love to be in your company and will miss you when you’re not around.
2.) Understand him intimately and cater to his ego
Everyone is a bit of narcissist. We enjoy being around people who pay attention to us and build us up.
No one can resist a person who understands them and pays them targeted attention The more skillful you are at this with the Sagittarian man, the more likely he’ll like when you’re around and miss you when you’re not.
So work to understand what he likes, dislikes, and strives for in life so you can cater to him in a very specific way that he’ll love.
3.) Help him achieve his goals
Once you’ve put in the work to learn all about your Sag man, you should have a good idea of what his goals and dreams are in life.
Being a Sag, he will no doubt have some big goals. The Sagittarian guy is growth-oriented, ambitious and puts his goals first in life. He’s always struggling to achieve and improve towards something.
So focus on doing what you can to make yourself useful in helping him achieve his goals. If you’re able to insert yourself into his goal process he won’t be able to ignore you and will think about you when you’re away.
4. Present yourself as a challenge for him to overcome
A common mistake people make when trying to make others miss them is being too available.
“If he knows how much I’m here for him, he will for sure miss me!”
Unfortunately, that’s rarely true.
Sagittarius is The Conqueror. He’s aggressive, determined and loves the feeling of overcoming an obstacle. If he doesn’t feel that you’re a challenge, then he won’t get those good feelings of accomplishment and subsequently won’t prize you.
Yes, I did just lay out the importance of making yourself useful to him just a moment ago. And you absolutely do want to show that you’re there for him. You want to prove that you’re worth being in his life, but, at the same time, you don’t want to be too available for him because it will make him grow bored of you (which is the opposite of missing you).
So make yourself useful, but don’t be too available. You’re a prize, after all, so make him feel compelled and motivated to earn you. Do this well, and he will definitely start to miss you.
5. Eliminate any needy tendencies
This ties in with being a challenge, but it’s worth covering again from this angle.
Don’t be too available, and most importantly, never display neediness around the Sagittarius man. This includes jealousy and possessiveness of all kinds. There is no better way to repulse a Sagittarius man than by showing him a strong needy or jealous side.
Not only will it not make him miss you, but it could also make him not want to have any romantic feelings with you at all.
Instead, when you’re around him showcase your freedom, confidence, and adventurousness. Be explorative and ready for anything, and he’ll be sure to think about you when you’re gone. You’ll be the first he calls when he’s planning his next excursion.
It can be a challenge to make the Sagittarius man miss you. He’s independent and is often happy to be doing his own thing at his own pace.
But he’s still a guy, and predictable to some degree. He longs for attention just like anyone else, so it’s always possible to make him miss you.
Always remember that his biggest fear in relationships is becoming dragged down by his partner. He needs the freedom to be on the go and face any obstacle at any moment. So his partner needs to have the constitution and resolve to do the same.
As long as you provide him with enough pleasant, laid back satisfaction and usefulness, you have a great shot at getting him to think longingly of you as he falls asleep.
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