How to Get a Sagittarius Man to Chase You Again

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Loren E. Elara

Loren E. Elara

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  • Sign: Sagittarius
  • Dates: November 23 – December 21
  • Ruling planet: Jupiter
  • Planetary principle: Expansion
  • Element: Fire
  • Mode: Mutable
  • Qualities: Masculine, positive
  • Read all about Sagittarius Man here

So you’re wanting to rekindle romantic feelings with a Sagittarius man?

Maybe he’s mad at you, bored of you, whatever.

No worries, cause we’re going to cover some strategies that you can use to get him to chase you again.

Related: 5 Clear Signs that a Sagittarius Man Likes You

Will a Sagittarius man come back?

The Sag man is entirely capable of moving on and never looking back after a breakup. He’s a freewheeling, independent person, so it doesn’t take long for him to get over a fling or romance.

Don’t fret though, because there are ways to win back your Sagittarius guy.

You’ll have to put in the effort, of course. Life is an adventure to him, so you’ll need to make sure he sees that you are an adventure worth exploring again. You shouldn’t just sit back and wait for him to come back to you (unless you employ some specific tactics).

So, instead of waiting around for him to call, you’ll want to be proactive, and fix some of the issues that caused him to drift away from you in the first place.

Related: 5 Essential Tips for Dating a Sagittarius Man

How to get a Sagittarius man to chase you again

Once you’re out of his orbit or moved into the friend-zone, it can be challenging to catch him again.

But do these things, and you’ll give yourself the upper hand.

Don’t push relationship vibes on him. If the Sag man has backed away from being romantic with you, it’s probably because he felt like you wanted the relationship more than he did.

He’s notoriously squirmy around relationships and pressure freaks him out. So if you hang out with him, don’t discuss any deep romantic yearnings that you have.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t create sexual tension between the two of you (you definitely should). But do it while keeping things light, festive and fun.

Get active and outdoors. Sagittarius men love the great outdoors and being physically active. If you want to be with this man, get in the habit of being active so you can keep up with him.

If he’s still following your social media accounts, don’t hesitate to post any active or outdoorsy photos, as they’re sure to appeal to him.

You can even frequent locations that you know he likes to be at. This provides a great way to “happen” to run into him again. Chance run-ins are great because they are casual and put no pressure on him.

Excite him with novelty. When a Sagittarius stops chasing, it’s often because he’s started to get bored. He’s a man that’s endlessly drawn to novelty and quickly gets tired of routine.

Since he’s already chased you once, he likely knows many of your habits and interests. To attract him again, you should consciously switch things up. Develop new interests, show a contrary side of your personality, go on spontaneous trips.

If he’s keeping tabs on you, none of this will go unnoticed. He has a radar for change and excitement, and he’ll want to figure out what’s up with you.

Related: What To Do When a Sagittarius Man Stops Texting Back

Ignoring a Sagittarius man to get him back – is it a good strategy?

A lot of people wonder if it’s a good idea to ignore a Sagittarius man to get him back.

Ignoring him, or just cutting him out for a while, can be a really good strategy to re-attract a Sagittarius man.

He is a freedom-loving guy who needs to feel uncramped in romance and relationships. So if you think the reason he lost interest in you was because of your high availability or crowding behavior, then intentionally keeping a distance from can be a way to draw him back to you.

The key benefit here is showing that you’re unfazed by his absence. He’s a man who hates neediness and clingy tendencies. So if he sees that you’re not phased by his absence, he will be able to trust that becoming closer to you again shouldn’t be a threat to his autonomy.

Related: 7 Things To Know About the Sagittarius Man in Bed

While you want to make yourself scarce, you don’t want to be unfriendly to him.

Don’t make it seem like you’re mad or reacting to him. Because reactivity makes him think you’re insecure and needy. You don’t want him to think that you’re keeping him out of the loop due to animosity, or to trigger him (even if you are), rather you want him to see that you’re busy and have lots going on.

When you do happen to run into him, don’t ignore him to his face. Just be friendly and nonchalant. If he asks you what you’ve been up to, don’t hold back. But don’t invite him to do anything, don’t try to make him react. This will pique his interest, especially if you’ve got cool stories to tell since you’ve last seen him (he loves interesting things).

While this ignoring strategy will work well in most cases, there are instances where it won’t work well. Mainly, if you were never really that involved with the Sag man.

If there wasn’t already strong chemistry built at some point, then he probably won’t notice your absence at all. In these cases, you’ll want to employ a more active strategy to attract his attention.

Related: 5 Surefire Ways to Make a Sagittarius Man Miss You

Conclusion

By applying some of the strategies in this post, there’s a good chance you’ll get back on his radar. And hopefully, he’ll start pursuing you again.

The biggest takeaway is that you should keep things light with him.

Don’t grovel or get dramatic. Don’t try to make him feel guilty or uncomfortable for drifting away from you. All of this will push him even further away, and he’ll feel even more justified in distancing himself from you.

It’s best to drop any relationship pretext at all. Don’t bring up the past, just focus on being playful and having fun, now.

Are you having a tough time with a Sagittarius man acting distant? Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below.

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2 thoughts on “How to Get a Sagittarius Man to Chase You Again”

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    i’m a cancer and it happens for me to meet a Sagittarius man who happen to be slow in everything. We just met and now its been a month or so and we have not been on date before, we just text or call each other which it does not happen more frequently as i would like it to be. We have promised to meet and go out so that we learn a lot about each other but he cancelled and explained about how busy he is and that even at that moment he was going to attend a meeting with the client. I like the guy a lot but i fail to understand the busyness that he has. Hope everything will be fine

    1. Loren Elara

      Hi Sharon. Sagittarians will frequently put business before relationships. They value the freedom that business/financial that achievements bring them. To coax him out on a date, I recommend that you pick something fun to do that could pique his interest enough to shake him from his other obligations. Make it a mystery, even. These men love a mystery. Good luck!

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