So you want to know if a Sagittarius man is serious about you? Well, you’re not alone. It’s a pretty common Google search term in the world of zodiac romance.
This is a guy, after all, who’s known to be commitment phobic. While some men in the zodiac give clear signals concerning how serious they feel about you, it’s not always the case with a Sagittarius man. There can be a lot of guesswork involved in a relationship with him.
Luckily, he’s a very honest guy, so you should be able to find out how serious he feels about you with a bit of work.
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How to know if a Sagittarius guy is serious about you
1.) He tells you
The Sagittarius man is direct communicator and prizes honesty. So if he’s starting to feel serious about the relationship, there’s a good chance he’ll just decide to tell you up front.
Note, that if he tells you, he’s likely to mean it. He’s very deliberate about escalating a relationship. Discussions about being serious, taking your relationship to another level, etc are a big thing for him, and the words he chooses will be honest.
You might want to rush and ask him now if he’s serious about you because he’ll be honest, right? That’s not always the best idea, because if he’s not feeling there yet, then he might perceive your question as pressuring him towards commitment. Which is always a no-no for the Sagittarius in a relationship.
2.) He praises your intelligence
The Sag man can dish out compliments with ease, but some compliments mean far more coming from him than from other guys.
Sagittarius is all about knowledge seeking, so the mind is an incredibly important component for him in all aspects of life. For a Sagittarius man to be serious with a partner, his partner’s mind needs to be able to keep up with his.
So if he’s complimenting your mind, your wit, your philosophical prowess… anything to do with your mental abilities, then that’s a strong sign that he views you in high regard. If other aspects of your relationship are going well, then it’s probable that these comments start falling out of him it means that he’s assessing you in a more serious light.
3.) He’s including you in his plans for the future
The Sagittarius man is always dreaming big and making grand travel plans. It’s all about the journey for him, so if you notice that he’s starting to include you in some of his bigger dreams, you can bet he’s taking your relationship seriously.
4.) He amps up his communication with you
The Sag man in a relationship is rarely a big caller or texter.
He’s too independent and is typically pretty busy. Plus he hates clinginess and needy behavior. This is true even when he’s been dating someone for a number of months.
So if he’s reaching out more often, wanting to check in with you, sending you articles he found, or make plans together, that’s a key sign that he’s feeling more for you and taking the relationship seriously.
5.) He opens up his schedule for you
The Sagittarius man is always filling up his schedule with activities. He rarely has openings in his schedule, even for partners, much to the chagrin of those who date him.
Sure he will invite lots of people out on his sporadic adventures, as he’s a socialite at heart, but these are activities that fit in with his already-made schedule.
So if he’s clearly opening up his schedule, being more available, and wanting to spend more time with you, that’s a big clue that he’s starting to take your role in his life seriously.
If he’s not yet showing you these signals, don’t worry. The Sagittarius man takes plenty of time developing a relationship and easing into the commitment/serious side of things.