So you want to know if a Sagittarius man is serious about you?
Well, you’re not alone. It’s a pretty common Google search term in the world of zodiac romance. This is a guy, after all, who is known to be commitment-phobic, and hard to read.
While some men in the zodiac provide clear signals concerning how serious they feel about you, that’s not always the case with a Sagittarius man. There can be a lot of guesswork involved in a relationship with him.
Luckily, he’s a very honest guy, too, so you should be able to find out how serious he feels about you with a bit of work.
How to know if a Sagittarius guy is serious about you
1.) He tells you
The Sagittarius man is a direct communicator who prizes honesty. So if he’s becoming serious about the relationship there’s a good chance he’ll just decide to tell you upfront.
Note, that if he tells you, he’s likely to mean it. He’s very deliberate about escalating a relationship. Discussions about being serious, taking your relationship to another level, etc are a big thing for him and the words he chooses will be honest.
You might want to rush and ask him now if he’s serious about you because he’ll be honest, right? That’s not always the best idea, because if he’s not feeling there yet, then he might perceive your question as pressuring him towards commitment. Which is always a no-no for the Sagittarius in a relationship.
2.) He praises your intelligence
The Sag man can dish out compliments with ease. But some compliments coming from him mean far more than they would from other guys.
Sagittarian men are all about knowledge-seeking. The mind is an incredibly important component for him in all aspects of life, especially with relationships. For a Sagittarius man to be serious with a partner his partner’s mind needs to be able to keep up with his own mind.
So if he’s complimenting your mind, your wit, your philosophical prowess or anything else to do with your mental abilities – that’s a strong sign that he views you in high regard.
If other aspects of your relationship are going well then it’s probable that these comments start falling out of him it means that he’s assessing you in a more serious light.
3.) He’s including you in his plans for the future
The Sagittarius man is always dreaming big and making grand travel plans. It’s all about the journey for him, so if you notice that he’s starting to include you in some of his bigger dreams, you can bet he’s taking your relationship seriously.
Pay attention when he discusses his dreams of travel and adventure. Is he including you in all of these plans?
4.) He amps up his communication with you
The Sag man in a relationship is rarely a big communicator, especially with calling and texting.
He’s too independent and is typically too busy to prioritize constant communication. Plus he hates clinginess and needy behavior. This is true even when he’s been dating someone for a number of months.
So if he’s reaching out more often – wanting to check in with you, sending you articles that he found, or making plans together, that’s a key sign that he’s feeling more for you and taking the relationship seriously.
5.) He opens his schedule up for you
The Sagittarius man is always filling his schedule up with activities. He rarely has openings in his schedule, even for partners, much to the chagrin of those who date him.
Sure he will invite lots of people out on his sporadic adventures, as he’s a socialite at heart, but these are activities that fit in with his already-made schedule.
So if he’s clearly opening up his schedule, being more available, and wanting to spend more time with you, that’s a big clue that he’s starting to take your role in his life seriously.
If he’s not yet showing you these signals, don’t worry. The Sagittarius man takes plenty of time developing a relationship and easing into the commitment/serious side of things.
If you want to speed up the deepening of his feelings for you then check out my guide to attracting the Sagittarian man here.