5 Pro Texting Tips to Build a Gemini Woman’s Attraction

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Today we’re discussing the best ways to attract a Gemini woman through texting.

Gemini women are great communicators and can easily read a man’s emotional state through texting. Texting her might feel like a minefield because there are so many ways that you can get yourself friend-zoned.

The key to attracting her through text is to progress the relationship without slipping up, texting too much, and turning her off.

In this post, you’ll learn how to make her fascinated via your texting style. You’ll also learn the things to avoid that would make her pull back or stop responding.

Apply what’s in this post, and you’ll come across as the type of guy that she actually wants to go out with. She won’t be ghosting, flaking, or using you for attention.

Note that the phrasing of this post focuses on helping men use masculine energy to captivate a woman’s femininity through texting. Still, the information can apply to same-sex couples with a more masculine partner and a more feminine one. 

With that said, let’s dive in.

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1. Use texting to set up in-person interactions

Gemini women are super chatty, but you don’t want to fall into a pattern of over texting them.

If you text a Gemini woman more than you talk to her in person, then there’s a good chance you’ll become a friend-zoned texting buddy.

Gemini women are most comfortable around men who make their intentions clear and don’t beat around the bush. The longer it takes you to set a date, the lower her attraction will be.

Setting up dates and other in-person meetings is an essential aspect of dating and building attraction. The worst thing you could do is to text with her for weeks before asking her out.

That demonstrates to her that you’re timid and lack initiative. It comes across like you need to get her to like you before you’d even be brave enough to ask her to go out with you. And that’s not attractive to women.

Set up a date. You’re not here to be her friend or texting buddy, so make your intentions clear. Don’t be timid about telling her that you want to escalate your interactions to an in-person meeting.

And try not to ask her out by texting “when are you free” or “when can I see you.” Instead, give her your availability. Say: “I’m free on this day. Does that work for you? If that doesn’t work, I’m free this next day.” 

This frames things as her adapting to your schedule, not you chasing her to meet up whenever she’s free. A Gemini woman will find this much more confident and attractive.

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2. Don’t text with her all-day long

As mentioned, Gemini women are ruled by the planet Mercury and can talk or text for hours on end. 

Do not fall into the trap of texting her all day long, though, because that behavior destroys chemistry.

Many people these days think that it’s good to keep constant contact. Often in dating, there’s a lot of fear that if you give your crush too much time away without talking, they’ll lose interest in you.

This thinking is backward. Attraction grows in the space in between communication. That’s when the mystery and uncertainty can brew, which creates excellent anticipation and sexual tension.

And besides, if you’re texting her all the time, you are demonstrating that you don’t have much going on. You’re also likely to fill those conversations with filler topics to make yourself seem interesting or look smart. 

Save that flirtation material for an in-person conversation. It lands better in person, and you won’t run the risk of running out of things to say because you texted with her for 5 hours the day before meeting up.

So don’t always be available to text. Show that your schedule is complete and that you have other things going on outside of her.

Don’t always be the one to initiate texting. Give time between conversation topics and let her be the one to reach out much of the time. This assumes that you’ve already taken the initiative and set up in-person dates.

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3. Be warm, flirty, and light in your texting but never needy 

You want to primarily use texting with a Gemini woman to set up dates and in-person meetings. But, engaging her here and there via text is still a good way to show your interest.

But you must watch out to not come on too strong like you’re overly eager or trying to convince her to like you.

If you come on super strong, she’ll reflexively back away. Gemini women want to be with a guy who’s a catch and is happy to initiate dates, but not one who’s overly excited about her and chasing her.

If you come across as too enthusiastic in your texts with her, it conveys that you don’t have many options and are super eager to try to get with her. It’s not attractive.

You never use texting to try to prove yourself or to shower her with validation-seeking compliments.

Here are some examples of texts to avoid sending that come on too strong:

  • I’ve been thinking about you all-day
  • You’re so beautiful
  • I miss you so much
  • I can’t wait to see you
  • Good morning gorgeous
  • What outfit are you wearing right now

While some Gemini women could potentially like these texts, most will cringe at them because they appear overly validating and approval-seeking.

Instead, you want to show her your personality and affirm her, but in a relaxed, confident way that isn’t seeking her attention and validation.

For example:

  • You could ask her how she’s doing or how her day’s been
  • You could crack a quick inside joke
  • You could tease her a bit in a quick and confident way

These light, playful, and engaging remarks tell her that you’re thinking about her but don’t signal that you’re sitting around thirsting for her.

Gemini women can tell how much you want them through text. But to build her interest and attraction, you want to try to keep your interest a mystery. 

When building attraction with a Gemini woman, you always want her to think she likes you more than you like her. This is because women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. Women want a catch, not a guy who pedestalizes them.

When you lavish her with praise and show her how excited you are to see her, her excitement for you dies out. Your interest is plain as day, and there’s no mystery or chemistry left—nothing to figure out. You’ve become just another guy thirsting for her in her inbox.

On another note, you never want to display nervousness or neediness if she’s slow to reply to your texts. Never double text. Wait for her to get back to you. If she doesn’t, move on. Chances are, she’ll get back to you eventually, anyway.

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4. Take your time responding to texts

Never feel like you need to be in a rush when texting a Gemini woman. Always take your time to respond. 

You don’t have to game things and wait a day or even an hour to get back to her. Getting back to her in 30 minutes or even 5-10 minutes works. Just don’t be literally texting her as she’s sending you a message.

If you respond immediately, the subtext says, “yeah, I’m available; I don’t have much going in my life outside of you.” Which is not a good look.

And try to be spontaneous when reaching out. Gemini’s love spontaneity, and these women get turned on when they feel like they can’t predict when you will hit them up. So let your messaging patterns be unpredictable. Text one day, then skip two— next, text two days in a row, then nothing for a week.

Intermittent texting is good because you’re not trying to have many conversations over text in general, so spread out the ones you have to make them last.

Keep in mind this is about initiating text conversations. You can respond to hers when she sends them.

While it’s entirely acceptable to be slow to get back to texts sometimes, do be prompt if the conversation is time-sensitive. A fast response displays competence and preparedness if she’s waiting at your door and Gemini women like this.

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5. Mix up texting with voice and video messages

This is a tip that I recommend for men when texting with all twelve Sun signs, but it is especially potent when used with a Gemini woman.

See, Gemini females love novelty. They love to adapt to situations that are unexpected and new.

Most guys will text with a girl straightforwardly. Just text messages over and over and over.

But you want to excite her and surprise her. To do this, mix up your text messages with voice memos and video messages. This breaks her usual sense of texting and engages her senses.

It also makes her feel more comfortable, as she can better imagine what it will be like talking to you in person if you haven’t met.

Text one day, voice message another, video chat another, then call another. Be unpredictable.

Do this well, and she’ll be in constant suspense, wondering what’s coming next. Will it be a text, voice memo, or video? 

This is way more stimulating than regular texting routines and amps up your novelty in her mind big time.

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BONUS: Cut back on your usage of emojis

Using a ton of emojis, gifs, and exclamations with a Gemini woman you’re crushing on might feel like a good movie, but it’s not if you’re trying to build her attraction.

Most guys are jokey and super friendly when texting a girl they’re into. But the more you use emojis in your text conversations with her, the more you risk her putting you in the friendzone.

That’s because this kind of conversation flow is super feminine. It might feel like she’s texting one of her girlfriends or platonic guy friends.

Instead, you want to have a masculine frame when you text. Not cold or overly reserved, but undoubtedly masculine in a way that creates polarity and stimulates her feminine.

You want them to take you seriously and see you as a mysterious and strong man. You want her to wonder about you a bit. A women’s interest and attraction grow when they’re not sure where they stand with you.

So apply straightforward answers and maybe a small amount of dry wit. Being more abrupt and serious when texting her keeps her on your toes and makes her try to figure you out.

It makes her look at you as more serious and dominant, while the class-clown method of being super giggly and gif-driven casts you as the goofy buddy that she won’t take seriously as a romantic option.

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Now you have the blueprint to deeply attract your Gemini woman with your text game.

Trust me, this stuff works, and you’ll stand out in a big way from her other suitors when you use these tips.

The fundamentals to remember are that you should text less and talk in person more. Use texting to set dates and occasionally chat to keep her thinking of you.

Remember always to be a patient texter and don’t come off as too eager for her. Her interest in you will grow when she doesn’t know where she stands with you. This will cause her to reach out to get your attention and validation, and you can invite her over. Easy.

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Loren Elara

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