- Sign: Libra
- Dates: September 23 – October 22
- Ruling planet: Venus
- Planetary principle: Balance
- Element: Air
- Mode: Cardinal
- Qualities: Masculine, positive
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What Sagittarius Man Likes about the Libra Woman
Her charm. Libra is always working to make people smile and feel included. Sag is a lighthearted charmer himself and loves how easily Libra puts people at ease.
Her femininity. Libra is a masculine sign (air), but her ruler,Venus, also gives her abundant femininity. Venus is the planet of beauty and it gives the Libra woman a soft eloquence and love of the finer things. She embodies this aesthetic and always behaves with grace and elegance. Her femininity is a great compliment to Sag’s masculine, worldly-philosopher persona.
That she takes care of her appearance. Libra always takes care of herself and strives to look her best. She dresses well, keeps her clothes ironed, wrinkle-free and lint rolled. She tends to her skin, her teeth, and to her diet. Sagittarius can’t help but appreciate a woman who is so well-kempt.
That she’s a socialite like he is. Libra loves to mingle. She is a bright character who’s glamorous and attention-getting. He gets a kick out of this, and it compliments his playful, lovable social style.
Her skill as a conversationalist. Libra is bright, social, witty and philosophical. As an air sign, she requires plenty of mental stimulation. Sagittarius loves this, as he has the same traits. Being a mutable fire sign, he requires stimulation of all kinds. She fans his conversational fire, and he eats it up. It’s easy for them to talk and debate for hours together.
That she takes care of him. Libra is an attentive friend, family member, and lover. She is tuned in to Sag’s needs and will do whatever it takes to satisfy them.
Her honesty. Telling or being involved in lies complicates life and make things messy, and Libra hates messy things. She prizes balance, peace, and stability above all else. So it is natural for her to strive for honesty. Sagittarius, too, shares a fervent love for the truth and appreciates her integrity and upright principles.
That she’s a great listener. Libra is a nurturer and loves giving her ear to others. She listens intently to whatever Sag says and doesn’t challenge or thwart his opinions. She strives to understand all sides of a topic.
She likes to explore with him. Sagittarius needs to roam and adventure, so he is quite happy that Libra is happy to pal along with him on his excursions. Her harmonious energy, lightness, and humor make her a great travel companion.
Her diplomacy. Sag is intrigued by Libra’s ability to understand every side of a situation. He himself is open minded and seeks to be an arbiter of the truth, yet he can get stuck trying to push his own (sometimes narrow) ideas. It’s a breath of fresh air, then, to see the calm and collected Libra perform such a balancing act, never allowing herself to narrowly fixate on one side of an argument.
What Sagittarius Man Dislikes about the Libra Woman
Her indecision. Libra is cautious and weighs all of her options before taking action. It’s a habit that serves her well most the time, but she’ll occasionally get so flustered by the available options that she’s unable to come to a decision. Sagittarius, on the other hand, is impatient and likes to act on impulse, so he gets annoyed with her seemingly endless back and forth.
Her focus on commitment. Libra is the most relationship-oriented sign of the zodiac. Her relationship energy tends to channel towards commitment and marriage earlier than most. Sagittarius enjoys partnerships, but he enjoys his freedom more, and it takes him much longer to warm up to commitment than Libra. It might trigger him when in the first few months of their relationship, she’s already asking him about buying property or finding a steady job or location together.
Her love of appearances and luxury items. Yes, he loves that Libra always tries to look and feel her best, but sometimes her yearning for a lavish lifestyle results in her spending a lot of money on herself and her home. He doesn’t quite see the appeal and would rather see money being spent on trips together or other experiences.
What Libra Woman Likes about the Sagittarius Man
His passionate nature. As a Fire Sign, Sagittarius is full of energy and passion. He has an insatiable desire to travel and experience the world. He’s high minded with his goals and causes, which Libra is sure to admire.
His honesty. Sagittarius is incredibly honest. He’s sometimes a bit blunt with it, which can hurt, but Libra respects it nonetheless.
His authenticity. Sag is incredibly genuine, goofy, childlike, and wears his heart on his sleeve. Libra is easily enamored by him since she is authentic herself and loves fun, playful people.
His spontaneity. There’s never a boring moment with Sagittarius. He hates letting life pass him by and is the opposite of a couch potato. Routine bores him, and he will add spice to any situation to keep things interesting.
His idealism. Sag and Libra are both eternal optimists. She loves his grand visions and desire to make the world a better place. She has a strong desire to make the world a better place, too, as the sadness and imbalances of the world have pained her since childhood.
His social nature. Sag enjoys parties, people, social gatherings, art, and music, just as she does. He’s always trying to meet people, share his knowledge, and learn new things. His enthusiasm and love of life are contagious to everyone around him, and he loves being at the center of attention.
That he’s a ton of fun. Sagittarius is always looking to have a good time, and Libra is happy to tag along. She loves that he’s light and cheerful and never tries to bog her down.
What Libra Woman Dislikes about the Sagittarius Man
That he can be too busy for romance. Sag just wants to enjoy life, enjoy the road, and see what happens. He enjoys romantic fun, but he’s not as relationship-focused as Libra. He cares more for his goals and worldly adventures. Relationships also threaten his freedom-loving side. This is especially true with a younger Sag, who still has abundant wanderlust energy that he needs to work out of his system.
His harsh and hurtful words. Sagittarius is notoriously blunt and direct and will hurt people with his words. He rarely means to, of course. He just puts little forethought into how his words might affect those around him. He doesn’t know how to sugarcoat things, as Libra does. He tells the truth of the matter whether you like it or not because he sees the truth as liberating. Libra is sensitive to sharp, pointed words and will no doubt end up on the receiving end of his (most likely unintentional) verbal barbs. She can flip most things into positives, but she won’t take well to hurtful words. They can really get her down.
His compulsive focus on freedom. Libra appreciates Sag’s free-roaming side, but there can be a bit of dissonance that develops as the relationship grows. She’s okay with him taking space, so long as he’s still putting time and energy into the relationship. As with everything, Libra wants to find balance and relational harmony. She wants there to be at least some downtime together, but she might find herself having to convince Sag of its merit.
That he doesn’t always care for his appearance. Libra pays immaculate attention to her appearance, so it can be a bit of a shock to her when her partner doesn’t do the same. Sagittarius doesn’t like to look bad per se, but he’s far less meticulous than she is about grooming. He’ll take a quick glance in the mirror, maybe adjust his hair a bit and check for crumbs on his clothes, and that’s all good for him.
Sagittarius Man & Libra Woman: Sexual Chemistry
Libra and Sag bring different, yet compatible styles and proclivities to the bedroom. There’s potential for this to be a very good sexual match, as neither feels pressured, and there’s plenty of opportunities for them to grow into each other.
Their planetary rulerships create great bedroom chemistry. Venus (Libra) and Jupiter (Sag) are benefic planets and bring warmth, sensuality, and playfulness. They seek above all else to indulge their senses and make each other feel good.
Sagittarius (fire) brings plenty of energy to the bedroom. He’s passionate, primal and loving. Libra (air) brings refined sensuality. She takes her time, attentively satisfies her partner, and expects to be satisfied in return.
Sagittarius may be quite intense in his sexual expression. He may want to get into it quick, burn hot, and perhaps burn out quickly. With his fire and her air, they can whip things up into a firestorm. Sex with Sag is a wild ride, but it can leave Libra lacking at times, especially if he’s a selfish lover.
She may want him to slow down a bit and take more time to enjoy the subtleties of lovemaking. He’s adaptable and can get on board with this, though it might take him some time, as he prefers sex to be light and fun, while Libra wants to experience more intimacy and emotional expression.
Her loving, nurturing energy eventually settles him down, and a richer sexual union results.
They’re good at communicating their wants and needs, so they’re likely to remain on board with each other as the sexual relationship grows.
Sagittarius Man & Libra Woman: Relationship Score
The Sagittarius man and Libra woman relationship gets great marks. This fun and laid back pairing is one of my favorite in the zodiac.
- Fire + Air. A favorable elemental pairing. His fire keeps her warm and her air fuels his fire.
- Cardinal + Mutable. Libra Cardinal and an initiator. She may want to take the lead in many situations, which mutable Sag is okay with. And vice versa.
- Jupiter + Venus. Warm, jovial planetary rulers. Both planets bring lighthearted, fun, and exciting energy.
- Sextile Signs. Sextile energy creates harmony and promotes growth. It makes relationships feel comfortable and growth-oriented.
They have a similar type of humor. It’s easy for these two to make each other laugh. They both enjoy witty banter, lots of back and forth, and have a strong sense of conversational playfulness.
They’re both social. They socialize for different reasons, but they harmonize perfectly together in group situations nonetheless.
They’re both fantastic talkers. They’re mentally agile with deep intellectual capacity. They’re open-minded and can talk to each other for hours about anything and everything. They’re also two of the best flirts in the zodiac.
They share a sense of hope & optimism. Anything is possible with these two. They’ll want to change the world together. They love genuine causes and making a positive impact on the environment around them.
They expand each other’s social networks. They each have a social circle and together their social contacts soar. It’s perfect because they are both always happy to meet more people.
They both seek knowledge. They are the adventurer and the idealist. He seeks tangible goals, while she seeks more intangible ideals.
Both enjoy being in a relationship. Libra lives for relationships. They are essential to her expression. Sag enjoys them too. He loves to have someone to explore and adventure with.
They’re good communicators. They’re both honest and direct, Sag especially so. So disagreements don’t last long.
They like the finer things. Both Sagittarius and Libra are high minded. She loves art and beauty, while he favors philosophy, exploration, and noble causes.
They both seek harmony. Neither sign likes disharmony or imbalance. Libra, because she is sensitive and can’t stand when things are in disarray or unfair. Sagittarius dislikes it because he doesn’t want anything to get in the way of his fun and freedom. For these reasons, neither sign likes to get stuck on petty issues. They dislike confrontations and typically will rise above any obstacle in search of harmony.
They teach each other how to better get what they want. Libra is incredibly diplomatic and tactful, which are traits which Sag can lack. She teaches him how to be more mindful in conversation and avoid trampling over peoples feelings. She also helps him balance out his goal-seeking behavior, which can be a little disorganized at times. He motivates her to try new things and be a little more adventurous. He helps her work through her indecisiveness and develop more initiative and assertive qualities.
Jealousy can occur. These aren’t tremendously jealous signs, but because they are social, attractive, and full of life, there’s bound to be interest from outside the relationship. Libra also gets deep into “partnership mode”, so she might call or text Sag a lot. Not because she’s jealous or trying to take over his time, necessarily, it’s just her style. But he might perceive it as jealousy or neediness. As a result, he might step back, which may make her feel like he’s ignoring her.
They may want the relationship to develop at a different pace. The Libra woman is most likely to fall in love more quickly than the Sag man. She’s a romantic and naturally moves towards commitment. Sag typically falls in love far more slowly, and she might grow frustrated if he is still aloof about commitment after they’ve been together for a while.
Both can be indecisive. Sagittarius is a man of action, but, being a mutable sign, he doesn’t always know what he wants to do. Or he tries to do everything but ends up doing nothing or very little. Libra gets caught weighing her options far too often. Because of this, they can struggle to solidify long term plans and goals, especially the nitty-gritty details of it all. They’re fantastic at creating in the moment fun and can be very passionate together. But if they don’t face potential harsh realities and vacillate too much, things can come crashing down.
They can neglect their emotions. Neither sign majorly represses their emotions, but both can still have issues with them. They’re both cerebral signs who are highly analytical and philosophical. Because of this, they can ignore their emotions. Both may have to learn the validity of approaching a situation with their emotional awareness.
His need for freedom. Sagittarius needs his freedom and the ability to roam and adventure. Libra understands this, as she too enjoys her freedom. But she, more than him, needs to feel routine and structure to feel secure. If Sag is okay with creating at least some routine, things will be a lot easier.
They have their individual paces. Sag is always ready to go, go, go. While Libra needs to take her time and weigh her options. He can get annoyed at her tendency to dither, which makes Libra feel even more pressured and flustered.
Who takes the lead in the relationship? This is a tricky question, and different astrologers come to different conclusions. Both are masculine signs (Fire and Air). Libra is a Cardinal sign, which gives her strong initiating energy, while Sagittarius is a Mutable sign, which is far more sporadic and deferential. I see them each taking the lead in the relationship at different times. Sagittarius is more likely to get things started, while Libra is more likely to take the reigns as the project develops. There’s a chance they’ll clash for dominance, and they could need to learn to respect each other and allow adequate space to be themselves.
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