Aquarius Man & Virgo Woman Relationship Compatibility | Can it Work?

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What the Aquarius Man Likes about Virgo Woman

Her self-sufficient and practical manner. Aquarius appreciates that Virgo is a taskmaster and how she’s entirely capable of getting her practical needs met on her own.

It’s essential that Aquarius finds a partner who can take care of things independently and doesn’t rely on a constant stream of help from her partner.

That she’s emotionally self-contained. Aquarius men are put off by people who have a hard time managing their emotions in a neat and tidy way. The Virgo woman doesn’t expect him to be her emotional caretaker, which he appreciates.

She will want his support, of course, but she’s rational and cerebral with how she deals with her emotions. She keeps her internal nature in check and won’t have many (if any) outbursts, which is just how he likes it.

Her profoundly intelligent mind. Virgo women are bright and apply their intelligence in all areas of life. Like Aquarius, she’s constantly stimulating her mind and absorbing a variety of information.

He likes that she’s cleverly skilled in handicrafts and has a lot of ingenuity in creative works. They’ll enjoy endless conversations together and will often dominate group discussions as a couple.

Her desire to serve and tend to him. Virgo is the sign of service and these women are incredibly devoted and supportive of their partners. She will go above and beyond to support his various projects and goals, which he appreciates tremendously.

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What the Aquarius Man Dislikes about Virgo Woman

Her pessimism and tendency to nag him. Virgo has a tendency to get caught up in negative moods, especially when anxious or overwhelmed. She’s the most critical sign in the zodiac, after all, and can be incredibly hard on herself and the people around her.

Aquarius prefers to stay upbeat and optimistic as much as possible and can feel that she’s bogging him down when she falls into her pessimist mode.

When she’s traditional to the point of being prude or regressive. Virgo tends to be reserved and appreciates long-standing traditions and values. This is in part because she likes to play it safe and stick to what’s known and reliable.

Control and predictability are important to her. The Aquarius guy is quite different, as he tends towards things that are new, novel, and pioneering because of his Uranus rulership.

How highly involved of a partner she is. On one hand, Virgo is highly independent, which Aquarius likes. But she’s also intensely involved in her partnerships.

Aquarius rarely puts his relationship first on his list of priorities and might dislike how much time she wants to spend with him.

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What the Virgo Woman Likes about the Aquarius Man

His active and involved life. Virgo is a busybody and likes to keep her schedule full of both work and play. She’s sure to be attracted to all of the activity that surrounds the gregarious Aquarius man.

He’s always out and finding something fun and interesting to do or tinkering away at some novel project.

His inventiveness and problem-solving abilities. Aquarius rarely comes across a problem that he can’t find at least five different answers to.

As an open-minded, future-oriented sign he realizes how little we really know and how much there is to learn. Virgo is quite the problem solver herself and respects his ingenious approach to finding unique solutions.

His good-natured service to the world. Aquarian men are drawn to reforming the world to create a future that’s built on fairness, equality, and prosperity.

Virgo loves his devotion to serving humankind and how he brings his pioneering innovation into fields of work like teaching, engineering, health fields, and music.

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His devotion to his friends and community. Aquarius channels his energy through groups. He’s a people person who loves to bring people together. He’s very popular and has great clout with the people in his social orbit. Virgo appreciates his popularity and social adaptability.

His spontaneity and unpredictability. Aquarian men always have something fun and interesting up their sleeves. Like Virgo, he rarely sits idle for long and will bounce around from one interest to the next in an effort to keep life interesting.

Virgo loves the challenge of keeping up with Aquarius and is always game to go on some new adventure – so long as it doesn’t interfere with her ability to get work done, of course.

How loyal and trustworthy he is. Some Virgo women may have heard that Aquarian men aren’t to be trusted in dating and relationships because of how free-spirited they are.

Yes, he loves independence and dating around, but he’s absolutely loyal to the people that he devotes himself to. As a fixed sign, Aquarians are solid in their core beliefs, opinions, and loyalties.

What you see is what you get with him. This is important to the relationship-oriented Virgo woman, as she’s often looking for her a partner who can go the distance with her. Getting him to commit is another thing, though.

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What the Virgo Woman Dislikes about the Aquarius Man

When he doesn’t give her the time of day. Virgo, being highly relationship-oriented, looks forward to many shared experiences with her Aquarian partner. But he may disappoint her if he puts his social and personal life above spending quality time with his significant other.

She may grow bitter when he doesn’t pay shared plans as much attention as she does. Even when they’re together, his mind may be elsewhere. This inattentive behavior of his can drive her wild, especially if it’s a frequent pattern of his.

His flippancy around money and finances. Virgo can be obsessive about balancing the checkbook and keeping finances in order. Aquarius, on the other hand, isn’t that financially driven or focused.

Virgo doesn’t worship money, but she’s highly conscious about material stability. If Aquarius isn’t attentive around money matters she may grow annoyed.

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His reluctance to move into commitment and marriage. Virgo women tend to search for commitment and marriage early, while Aquarius takes a lot longer, instead choosing to seek experience and is slow to commit. This can drive an impatient Virgo woman who’s looking for a commitment up the wall.

When he tries to reform her. Aquarius guys often volunteer their opinions on how a partner could improve, sometimes in a very blunt way.

Virgo is similar (she loves to critique others), but she has a hard time being on the receiving end of such blunt appraisals from others. She may grow resentful if Aquarius is unrelenting in his desire to modify and reform her ways.

How much he loves his autonomy. Virgo may grow frustrated with how quickly Aquarius can feel restricted or trapped in the relationship. She respects his need for space and time apart, but he may need far more time and independence than she prefers.

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Aquarius Man & Virgo Woman: Sexual Chemistry

Score: 5/10

They have comparable sexual appetites, but Aquarius can get distracted and neglect his sexual life from time to time. Virgo might have to bring out her feminine wiles to keep him on a love-making routine that keeps her satisfied. This can grow tiring for her overtime if he’s hellbent on rushing off into other activities.

Neither sign is overly emotional in bed, so there’s not likely to be too many hiccups over there being a lack of closeness or expressiveness.

But Virgo’s critical eye could destroy some of the passion between them, And Aquarius might have a hard time accommodating her self-critical nature around desirability and perceived sexual value.

Ideally, they’ll both be engaged lovers – Aquarius will be generous and inventive, and Virgo will feel supported and satisfied by their sexual union.

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Aquarius Man & Virgo Woman: Relationship Score

Score: 5/10

This intellectual pairing is a bit cooler than most relationships and may lack emotion and passion. But it could be just right for them.

Both are devoted partners, and once committed, choose to serve steadfastly in their relationship. They likely share a wonderful sense of fun, humor, and wit, but there’s certainly a risk for clashes.

Overall, this won’t be the easiest relationship. Virgo will likely have to be the one adapting more to make things work, as Aquarius is a fixed sign and is pretty set in his ways.

One area she’ll need to show flexibility could be scheduling. Aquarius is very laissez-faire in his attitude to scheduling and planning, while Virgo is determined about structuring her times.

While both can be aloof and happily absorbed in their own work and projects much of the time, Virgo hates to feel under-appreciated and will make it known to Aquarius when she does.

Aquarius might begin to view her as fussy, neurotic, and in need of too much reassurance.

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Aquarius Man & Virgo Woman: Keys to Success

Virgo might need to town down her judgmental side and cynicism. They’re opposites here, with Virgo being critical and Aquarius being mostly accepting and upbeat.

Aquarius may benefit from some of Virgo’s lessons on discernment, but overall she’ll want to relax and learn to be more upbeat to satisfy the relationship.

They’ll need to get on the same page about relationship goals. In the Virgo-Aquarian dynamic they must get clear on relationship goals. What are they looking for from the relationship?

Virgo likely wants a partner to build a family with, while Aquarius may just looking to explore and have an ephemeral fling, Virgo needs to know this and react accordingly, or she might face disappointment.

It’s hard for him to fall in love, and if he’s not trying to, she probably will feel left out in the cold with his aloof nature. She can’t push him into marriage. He will take his time and won’t feel pressured by her impatience.

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They’ll need a balance of stability and novel excitement. Virgo thrives on consistency but likes excitement & novelty at times. Aquarius thrives on variety but likes some degree of grounded consistency.

If there’s too much routine and consistency in the relationship, Aquarius will feel stifled. If there’s too much inconsistency, change, and bouncing around, then Virgo will feel stressed and fall into an anxious pattern.

They need to discuss this dichotomy often and find ways to satisfy both of them.

Loren Elara

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3 thoughts on “Aquarius Man & Virgo Woman Relationship Compatibility | Can it Work?”

  1. I love my Aquarius men but he has his Ways when it come to texting sometime sometimes when I text him and he will just look at it and text me something else I guess he forget sometime I don’t know but I am a Virgo and me and my boyfriend been together for 11 months now I love him but he have his way

  2. Frustrating i tell u. As an Aquarian, … ngggrh… it’s frustrating! Well, 50-50 with the Virgin, what can we say? So centered to herself and quick to judge but yet try to pull the rope. Yeeesh! Just goddamnit be open and we’ll love each other but noooo. Still have to keep on the rope and stay at a distance. The f*?!!

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