Aquarius Man & Gemini Woman Relationship Compatibility | Can it Work?

Loren E. Elara

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  • Sign: Aquarius
  • Dates: January 21 – February 19
  • Ruling planets: Uranus & Saturn
  • Planetary principle: Truth
  • Element: Air
  • Mode: Fixed
  • Qualities: Masculine, positive
  • Learn How to Attract the Aquarius Man Here

What the Aquarius Man Likes about the Gemini Woman

Her openness. Aquarian men are typically accepting, broad thinkers. He likes Gemini woman’s mental adaptability and open-minded thinking. She’s not afraid to be herself or speak what’s on her mind. He adores her youthful, wide-eyed approach to the world and her eagerness to learn something new every day.

Her sociability. Aquarius loves how much of a social butterfly Gemini is. She’s rarely alone and enjoys plenty of social activity. Like Aquarius, she establishes a social circle with ease and can talk with just about anyone. She may even be more effortless than he is in a social setting, which is a nice surprise for him.

Her quick-wittedness. Gemini is the sign of the talker. She thrives in discussion and has great communication skills. She’s funny, poised, and always on the lookout for something to examine and scrutinize. She loves fantasy, mind-games, and occupying herself with ample amounts of light and fun discussion. She talks so much that it can be tough to get a word in with her sometimes, especially in a debate, but the Aquarian guy is up for the challenge.

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Her spontaneity and restlessness. Gemini is frequently on the move, both physically and mentally. She always has something new and interesting going on in her life. Aquarius is immediately reassured that with her he wouldn’t feel trapped in a mundane routine.

That she understands him. It’s hard for an Aquarius to find someone who gets him, but he recognizes that he’s in good hands with the Gemini woman. She’s open and curious about life and people, just like him, and she doesn’t judge his quirkiness, no matter how zany or weird his moods or remarks are. In fact, she’s likely attracted to his oddball antics, which makes him feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

Her complex personality. She’s a bit of a puzzle, and he likes puzzles. Her mind is all over the place, and Aquarius likes trying to chase down every thread. He’s drawn to the attractive and stimulating company that she keeps and loves the compelling challenge of trying to hold her flittering interest.

When she inspires him to be more adaptable and flexible. Gemini is one of the most changeable and adaptable women in the zodiac. Aquarius is also a versatile and open thinker, but he’s also a fixed sign, and can become rigid with his more established opinions and beliefs. The Gemini woman challenges his rigidity and helps him embody the open-minded ideals that he values.

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What the Aquarius Man Dislikes about the Gemini Woman

When she lacks deep opinions. Gemini is curious and a great student, but she doesn’t often hold strong or bold opinions. She likes to discuss ideas for the fun of it, not so much because she cares deeply for them. Aquarius is open-minded, but his ideas are also important to him and he holds dearly to certain beliefs. He might wish Gemini was a bit less flippant and wavering with her opinions.

When she wants to talk, text, or hang out all the time. Aquarian men need plenty of personal space in relationships. The Gemini woman can certainly appreciate this, but she’ll also likely get swept up in wanting to communicate with him quite frequently, and more than he signals interest for.

When she acts spoiled and self-absorbed. Gemini women can find themselves talking constantly in order to feed their flittering interest & egos. She might avoid discussing anything that does not concern or affect her (even if Aquarius thinks it’s a fascinating topic). Some Gemini women can be demanding of sympathy, attention, consideration, and time; believing this to be their right. Aquarius is not likely to be intrigued by this.

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When she’s flakey. Many Gemini women are fickle, indecisive, and overly changeable. Because of this, she can fail to live up to commitments. Just because she says she’s going to do something doesn’t mean she’ll follow through. She’s naturally capricious and wants the freedom to change her mind as often as she wants. She has a short attention span, especially for the everyday things in life. Her feelings, opinions, and commitments can change, seemingly without rhyme or reason. Aquarius understands this (he can be similar), but he also appreciates consistency and stability in partnership.

When she’s an overly indulgent gossip. Aquarius doesn’t mind a little gossip, but Gemini can lay it on heavy at times, which doesn’t always sit well with him. It can feel problematic for him if she’s constantly being judgmental about others. He’s an accepting guy, and constant judgment energy can put him off.

When she’s deceitful. Gemini’s can exaggerate the truth and tell white lies. When she wants to avoid a bad situation she might simply not tell the truth if it benefits her. The Aquarius man puts truth-telling on a pedestal and doesn’t like manipulative people or liars.

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What the Gemini Woman Likes about the Aquarius Man

His good-natured humanitarianism and idealism. Aquarius is the humanitarian of the Zodiac. Aquarian men are good-natured and want to make the world a more fair, just, equal, and balanced place. He has a progressive, original mind and the determination to put his ideas to good use. This all makes the Gemini woman happy. She’s also a good-natured person herself and loves the positivity that he brings.

His fixed determination and beliefs. As a fixed-sign, Aquarian men tend to focus on goals and stay locked in on them until they’re completed. She likes that he can help keep Gemini focused when she begins to waver, which is something she really benefits from. She also appreciates that she always knows where he stands on things.

His quirky individuality. She’s always looking for someone who can hold her attention. And the Aquarian guy constantly satisfies her. He’s a puzzle and stimulates her in novel ways that she’s not used to. He’s always got some strange ideas cooking up, and she loves his eccentricities.

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His intellectualism & visionary ideas. Gemini likes that her Aquarian man is always open to listening to her and conversing on an intellectual level. She’s in love with ideas, and Aquarius offers her a never-ending supply of truly unique, visionary ones. She loves to flaunt a man who has so many new ideas and ways of looking at the world.

That he doesn’t crowd her. Gemini appreciates freedom and doesn’t like to feel crowded or pushed into anything. Aquarius understands her need for freedom and independence thoroughly and gives her the space she needs. He allows Gemini plenty of mental independence and doesn’t fret over her gregarious flirtatiousness.

His wide-spanning range of friends and interests. Gemini casts a wide social net and likes people who are social and well-liked, and Aquarius fits the bill. He’s all about friendship and community building. He’s a total people person, and platonic friendships abound in life. She’s pleased to see how much he flourishes with regular social contact, just like she does.

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What the Gemini Woman Dislikes about the Aquarius Man

How cold and distant he can be. Gemini isn’t needy when it comes to emotional intimacy, but still, she can feel put off by how cold and distant Aquarius can be at times. Most of the time he’s super playful, which she loves, but the times that he’s somber and isolates himself depress her. When he’s down she can’t use her social charm to cheer him up. She might start to feel like he doesn’t like her or that something’s missing in their relationship, whether that’s true or not.

When he gets stubborn. Aquarius is a fixed sign, which can make him inflexible at times. He’s open-minded in so many ways, but he can be really set in his behaviors. When he decides on something, he’ll rarely change his mind. Sure, she might like this when she’s not looking to make a decision, but when she feels like she has a better idea, but he won’t budge, she starts to dislike his stubbornness.

When he’s introverted and anti-social. Gemini is the epitome of a social butterfly, while Aquarius is more hot and cold. Sometimes he’ll be the most social person in her life and will hardly come home for weeks on end. But other times he won’t leave home for a week or two straight. When he’s in an internal phase, he won’t be the talkative guy she’s used to, and she may struggle to cope.

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Aquarius Man & Gemini Woman: Sexual Chemistry

Score: 8/10

Gemini & Aquarius are both air signs, which means sex isn’t the most important thing in their lives. But it’s still essential for them to have a healthy sex life together. They’re both inventive and generous lovers who have a lot in common and can connect on a physical, mental, and soul level, which makes for an easy sexual connection.

Neither needs an abundance of emotion or passion to be satisfied, which helps them to more easily find satisfaction. Both require a lot of stimulation, and both can provide it. Since they’re both children at heart, sex will be fun and experimental. Their intellects take the lead, and sex will be equally cerebral as it is physical. They can expect lots of playful banter during foreplay and sex itself.

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They shouldn’t have a hard time communicating their sexual needs to each other. Gemini may struggle to know what she wants on occasion, but Aquarius is up for the task to help her explore and find out what she’s into.

Their sex life is likely to be unusual in some way – with Aquarius being eccentric in all things, which excites Gemini. As long as they can keep things consistently novel and exciting, this should be a comfortable union.

Outside interests may detract from their sexual life together, as both always have a lot going on around them. But, assuming they find the time, they shouldn’t have too much of an issue remaining sexually stimulated and satiated.

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Aquarius Man & Gemini Woman: Relationship Score

Score: 8/10

This is one of the better pairings in the zodiac. These two have a lot in common as air signs. They mentally click and can easily talk for hours on end. They get each other without saying a word and might feel that they’re from the same soul family.

They’re both light-hearted, fun-loving, and flirtatious. They get along really well, and people take notice. They complement each other perfectly and can achieve a lot together in the social arena.

They’re not an intensely emotional match, and they may lack raw passion, but they are complementary, and that might be all that they need. If they have shared passions, they’ll really enhance their staying power together. They have great creative potential, and Gemini will work to keep their projects fresh and interesting, while Aquarius helps steady Gemini’s focus and ability to get things done.

They’ll certainly have heated discussions at times, as both feel confident in their own intellectuality, but fights should be sparse, as neither likes to revel in disagreements or hold onto grudges.

They are fundamentally compatible, but the long term prospects of this relationship depend a great deal on their individual maturity. If they’re young and haven’t sowed their seeds much, this relationship might not be one that lasts. Both are free-spirited and love to explore experiences with multiple lovers. There’s a chance they might be better life long friends than life long partners.

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Keys to Success

Working to form and crystallize the relationship. They’re both commitment-phobic. They’re excitable, yet distant at the same time. If they want long-term success, they’ll have to work at cementing the relationship and bringing it to a formal level. If they don’t emphasize establishing their bond, they can fall into their habits of coming and going in romance and never move beyond basic dabbling.

Establishing defined relationship goals. Neither likes to feel trapped in any way, especially in relationships. Relationship goals can morph and change easily and quickly for them, and they must keep each other appraised of their desires and goals for the relationship. Monogamous relationships might not appeal to one or both of them. They should be candid about what they’re looking for and clear if they’re feeling timid about commitment. If they don’t talk it over, they might just shy away from the relationship and turn flakey.

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Avoiding becoming lost in la-la land. You can never tell what’s going to happen next with these two. Neither of them is keen on planning things out or seeking routine. Aquarius likes routines more than Gemini, but he’ll likely grow restless and want to change things up before too long anyway. This can lead to the relationship feeling hazy and ungrounded. If they’re living together, they could forget to pay bills and maintain the other mundane responsibilities in life. Each wants to keep their head in the clouds, and it will take at least one of them to keep their feet on the ground. Some planning and scheduling is a must.

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Keeping emotional communication flowing. Both tend to keep their emotions to themselves, which can become a roadblock if they run into tough times and have difficult feelings brewing. If they struggle to share emotions they can slowly start to drift apart.

Keeping things interesting. They need to maintain social lives outside of the relationship. Having friends and outside activity will satisfy their novelty seeking. Neither is the home-body type who just wants to be with their partner all the time, so they should avoid falling into that kind of routine. They should work to fill their shared lives with activity. Fast-paced is good for this pair.

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Conclusion

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